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Cat Frenemies! Ask A Question About Cat Bullying, Fighting, and the New Cat in the Family!

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I'm so grateful for your web site and have already learned a lot.

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Cat fights?  Not rated yet
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Why does she do this?  Not rated yet
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my male cat is a bullie  Not rated yet
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grown up cats started fighting . why?  Not rated yet
hi
i have 3 kittens ,sam from one mother , dey luv each oder , eat together n sleep togheter.
after one year my cats are pregnant now they have started ...

Two plus two equals squabbles  Not rated yet
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Ongoing Cat Spats  Not rated yet
This is a bit long, but I felt it necessary to describe the entire situation to perhaps help in pinpointing what the issue is.
Our resident cat (Smuckers)...

Adding a new cat to the family.  Not rated yet
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The Alpha Cat  Not rated yet
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Help! Advice needed.  Not rated yet
Dear experienced Cat Lovers

I need your life saving advice, please.

I have a 4 month old kitten, my stroppy Charlie. He has never been a gentle cat ...

cats keeping others from going to the basement and using the litter boxes  Not rated yet
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The new little gal is mighty fierce!  Not rated yet
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I have 9 kitties for 9 years. I love their personalities. I also have 10 litter boxes and still have a problem with my 16 year kitty. I think he's jealous ...

three's a crowd  Not rated yet
My friend recently added a third cat, a male, to her household of two cats, two females. (They are all neutered/spayed.) He is a very sweet and affectionate ...

Newly Adopted Cats Wreaking Havoc  Not rated yet
I hope you can help. We recently lost our 17 year old dog and our 5 year old female tortie/DLH Maizzie was heartbroken and depressed. We decided to adopt ...

Gender match for multi-cat household?  Not rated yet
We currently have 3 adult females; 1 10 yrs and 2 4yrs. We want to add another, but given that females are more territorial, wonder if we would be better ...

Turning an outdoor stray into an indoor cat  Not rated yet
My friend is going to adopt a stray cat that has been coming to her door for food for a couple of years now. (He will be neutered and tested before he ...

The Brady Bunch  Not rated yet
I have 4 indoor cats that get along for the most part. I am combining households with my boyfriend next week who has 2 indoor cats. Yep, we are soon ...

Cat fight  Not rated yet
I have 3 adult cats, all have been raised together from kittens. One female, Sassy and one male Freddy, both age 7 . The other male, Rascal, age 6. Sassy ...

Two female cats  Not rated yet
My husband, who lived in Germany for three years and five months, brought his female cats home with him. I've had our other two - one male and one female ...

introducing a new member   Not rated yet
hello,

We recently lost one of our five cats in our home and we are thinking about getting a kitten.

here is a little background on our current ...

new cat  Not rated yet
Hi: Me and my fiance have a male 3 year old cat,and we recently got a new kitten also male. Well the older one is attacking the baby and trying to drag ...


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